She showed up at one of my gigs in the early years at Blue Chicago in the mid 90’s. Always sitting alone, stage right with a note pad in hand – writing stories and songs. Shortly after our first meeting she told me she liked to sing & perform and I would call her up to do a number or two. She was good. And she was a true free spirit, artistic, smart, beautiful, fashionable, so positive and so very funny. I loved her immediately. I saw her through her restaurant years, various apartments, Landmark and then the weird speech thing and then the diagnosis. We would drift in and out of being in close touch – my fault, my regret, my pain. But as always we came back to each other. Kindred spirits. She always lending a boost to my spirit. She left everyone with that impression: bright, full and joyful. She asked me to perform with my band at her KissMyALS party. It made me so happy to see all of the love and support she had. I tried not to think of what the future held for her condition. She came to see me at the Drake Hotel over the summer. Again, sitting alone with a notepad in hand to speak her words. It meant so much to me. I held her hand and she smiled at me dabbing the side of her mouth – that sparkle in her eye, that shine in her smile, that lovely hair and a kickass outfit.
She walked with a fashionable cane. In life she made lemonade. I am heartbroken, I weep for our collective loss. O Death. Oh, lovely, vivacious Anne Marie. We miss you. I will never forget you.
lcn
I’m so sorry to hear about your friend, Lynne. ALS is a terrible disease. Your tribute is beautifully written and has a lesson for us all. We should all be making a lot more lemonade.
Lynne
Thank you LCN. I was hoping folks would get that “lemonade” reference… you never know… not everyone is as smart as you!
Deb O
Lynne, you have my sympathy for your loss. Anne Marie sounded like a positive person that will be truly missed. ALS is a disease that destroys far too many vibrant lives. Let’s continue to fundraise for a cure in Anne Marie’s memory with the same attitude and effort she faced it daily. She will smile down from a place free of pain. Seems like a proper way to honor her memory.
Lynne
She was a force of nature! Thanks Deb!
Lynne
and I still shudder when I think that she has died, that she knew her death was coming – not in the way we all do but that her condition was taking her to it… soon. It makes me so sad. It makes me marvel at her magnificence even more…